Tag: group life

Are you in an Effective Group?

You know whether you are in effective small groups or not.  Am I right?

Recently, I changed Sunday School classes. The people in my previous class are really nice people. However the group rarely got into its Bible lesson without getting sidetracked by current events or politics. Some people were getting hurt by not agreeing with the majority view – others stopped attending. I simply grew frustrated. I was feeling that I was being held captive to someone’s rants or raves. It was not why I was there!

Can you identify with my experience? Sadly, many Christians do not feel that they’re a part of effective groups. Groups come in many forms – small groups for study or fellowship, a ministry team or a leadership Council. There are things that you can do to ensure your groups are effective.

How would you rate your group?

Think of groups to which you currently belong. Review this list of characteristics. It should be a group that meets regularly and has a clearly defined role. For each characteristic, rate your groups by circling a number at the end of the characteristic.

Key:    1=not really      5=so-so    10=on target

1. Everyone arrives and leaves on time                            1     5     10
2. Our leader is trained and effective                                 1     5     10
3. Our group has a clearly defined purpose                     1     5     10
4. All members participate                                                     1     5     10
5. We communicate clearly and directly                          1     5     10
6. Our discussions are focused and productive             1     5     10
7. We don’t judge but seek to understand                       1     5     10
8. We periodically evaluate how we are doing               1     5     10
9. We have a set goal or agenda when we meet             1     5     10
10. We pray for one another rather than prey                  1     5     10
11. Our group accomplishes it’s goals                                 1     5     10
12. We make decisions by consensus                                   1     5     10
13. We all feel responsible for the group’s success        1     5     10
14. We deal with conflict in a timely manner                   1     5     10
15. We have a shared vision                                                      1      5     10
16. Our group is growing as a team                                       1     5     10
17. We do not pre-judge one another                                   1     5     10
18. We value differences                                                             1     5     10
19. We seek clarity not rambling                                            1     5     10
20. No one dominates discussion                                           1     5     10
21. We share information related to our task                   1     5     10
22. We avoid group think or giving in to appease           1     5     10
23. We use “I” statements                                                         1     5     10
24. We test assumptions before making decisions         1     5     10
25. We practice courteous communication practices    1     5     10

Tally up your score.

Look over your responses carefully.  Which column has the most circles?  Which has the least?  What does this tell you about your group? What are some specific ways your group can improve?

Conclusion

Being part of a group should be a good experience.  We have simply too many demands on our time to waste in a group that is not effective. I encourage you to not accept an under performing group. After you have analysed the group’s life talk to others about whether they share your concerns. You are unlikely to be alone in your thoughts. Then work out together what can be done to address each of the low scores. You don’t have to fix them all at once – but do make a start.